One voice can make a difference; a million voices can change the world.



Patrick’s memoir, “I AM ME: Survivor Of Child Abuse And Bullying Speaks Out”, details the lifelong effects of childhood rape by serial killer John Wayne Gacy, the bullying he endured from an older brother and his torturous coming out story as a Catholic man.

Patrick Dati


My message is clear: “You and me can stop bullies!” Patrick speaks from experience. By telling his story, he turns TRAGEDY into TRIUMPH.

Patrick Dati


Patrick is an advocate for a number of local and national organizations devoted to the promotion of LGBTQ rights and prevention of child abuse and bullying.